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12 Common Relationship Mistakes and How to Mend Them

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Finding a parthner is the goal for most people. When you get one, you try all you can to keep him or her to yourself. At the begining the relationship is good and sweet. As time goes on we begin to loose the pleasure we once had. We no longer feel bonded as before. Most often we feel hurt and start making some erors. most often these errors cause our relationship at the end. We get hurt and most often loose our trust. Below is a  list of errors we make while ia a relationship and Mending Relationship Mistakes Commonly Made(complete list). are you ready? lets dive in.

1. Invading your parthner’s personal space

Be sensitive to know when your partner needs his personal space. If your partner is in a bad mood or doesn’t feel like talking, just give them the space they need and just be. Most guys don’t like to talk about their issues the way women do. Instead, they prefer to pull back and work things out internally.

2. Flipping out if he looks at or talks to another person

Having our partner to ourselves only is always our goal. It’s also man’s nature to look. Getting when your partner looks at another person  shows you’re insecure, which is a huge turn-off. If you find yourself getting jealous whenever another person is arround your partner, you need to do an honest check in with yourself. At the root of it, there is either trust missing from the relationship or you need to build up your self-esteem.

3. Not taking care of yourself or letting yourself go

It really is a shame to see how many people think it’s okay to stop working out and taking care of themselves as soon as they’re in a relationship. If anything, you should feel more motivated to make the effort once things are more settled to keep the attraction alive and sexual energy buzzing.

4. Not having your own life

Don’t be one of those who forgets their friends and their interests as soon as they get into a relationship, it never ends well and makes you look needy. It reduces your value in the long run.

5. Being passive aggressive and rude

Most attimes we become aggresive and rude to our parthner. This is an error we make when we are in relationships which cost our relationship most of the times. Always remember that we all are humans and we need to be humble and respectful. It will increase the span of your relationship.

6. Nagging

No human is perfect, no human is capable of giving you every single thing you need. There will be times when you’re not happy with something your parthner is doing. If this happen, do not nag the person over it. The best strategy is to tell out what it is you want, (I love it when you do X) instead of harping on what you don’t want (Why don’t you ever do Y?).

7. Not appreciating him

Dont be more concerned with what your partner isnt doing well. Rather look at what they are doing, and then acknowledge and appreciate them for it! The more you show you appreciate your partner, the more they will try to please you.

8. Being bitter

We all have bad days, it’s understandable. However, it’s in your best interest to try and be happy and positive. No one wants to hang around with a Negative person. In general, we’re drawn to people who are happy and radiate a positive energy. Wake up with a smile, express gratitude, see the good in your life and in your relationship. This will not only help you in your relationships, but it will make your life better overall.

9. Beign Insecure

It’s not your parthners fault if you feel fat or your skin is breaking out or you found a tiny wrinkle by your mouth or if you’re scared they will leave you for someone shiny and new; these are your issues and hang ups so don’t turn them into relationship problems. kill them to enhance your relationship.

10.Trying to change your partner.

When you get into a relationship, you need to take that person for exactly who they are, not who you want them to be. they are just who they truely are, take it or leave it. When it comes to minor things, like the fact that they dress or act poorly sometimes, be gentle and encouraging. Don’t criticize and make them feel stupid. Say something that makes them feel good and inspires them to make that change on their own, for instance, “You look really sexy in that outfit but it would be even sexier with those jackets instead.”

11. Not loving them in the way that makes them feel loved

Everyone feels love differently. Most women feel loved when their man brings them a bouquet of flowers while this type of gesture would be meaningless to a guy. Guys have their own ways of feeling loved. It could be gifts, food, compliments, a cup of tea, or a massage at the end of a long day. Pay attention to how your parthner responds to things to determine what makes him feel truly loved (it should be obvious) and try to do whatever it is as much as possible.

12. Going too fast.

When you’re in a serious relationship with someone, you have to ease into the relationship. If you get swept up in the initial infatuation stages and spend all your time with that person, you will probably overlook any red flags or deal breakers because you’re rational side will be overtaken by the emotional stimulation of it all. Ease your way into the relationship so you avoid losing yourself in it. You will also avoid ending up with someone who is completely wrong for you.

Got any relationship mistakes or ideas you want to add? Tell us about them in comments!

 

 

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