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13 smart dating tips to make it a perfect one

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13 smart dating tips to make it a perfect one

You are going out on a date and feeling nervous on how it would turn out to be? Here is a list of few tactics you should use while going out on a date. These dating tips would help you to imagine things from the perspective of mind of a boy/man. The tips come from a world of smart people and smarter dating.

Be proud of yourself

When you start a conversation be proud of what you are but don’t also throw it on his face trying to act clever. Just be confident with who you are and let him open up with you.

Don’t judge the book by its cover

Don’t judge him by his looks or tattoos. He may look smart but what he actually is comes out when you give a space of room for him to speak out. So let the things calm and let him open up. Just don’t sound to be too impressed or disappointed by him things take time.

Be smart

Men like smart women so do things of your own instead of asking him for everything. Take your own decisions of what you feel like or what is your stand on a certain topic. Don’t just change your words to impress him. Men like women who have their own identity

Give him a chance

Go beyond a first date if it can take a few dates for smart people to get over their jitters. So if you like a guy but just aren’t sure if you’re clicking, give him a little time to prove himself

Find someone who suits you

Compatibility is the key to a long lasting relationship. So it is important that you find mutual interest with your partner when you are searching for a partner.

First impressions are always important

Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you. Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance. Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start. Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time.

First impressions are always important

Your ripped jeans may be lucky, but remember, this will be the first impression your date gets of you. Yes, you should never pretend to be someone that you’re not, but a girl might like to see that you take pride in your appearance. Don’t worry, this doesn’t mean you need to wear a full tuxedo, but having a shower, shave, using aftershave and putting on something suitable will help you impress your date and get you off to a good start. Now all you have to worry about is turning up on time.

Make date plans for somewhere you’ll feel comfortable

You might think that you’re being a gentleman by letting your date decide where you go on your date, but women often like to see that you can take control. Plus, as dating can be a daunting experience, help cut through those nerves by arranging to meet up in familiar territory. This will help make you feel more comfortable. Although, maybe avoid your normal Saturday night pub, as bumping into your mates could be a little distracting on your date.

Be confident

Women value confidence highly when it comes to choosing a guy. If you’re a little shy, practice beforehand by talking to people you don’t know. Or, whilst on the date, pick a subject that you’re enthusiastic about, such as a hobby. She will sense your confidence as you talk passionately about it. Many people may also be shy about their appearance. You may not be 6ft tall with a 6-pack, but it’s more attractive to a woman to show that you’re comfortable in your own skin and happy being you.

Don’t do all the talking

On your date, make sure you don’t do all the talking. Try to keep what you have to say short and concise. You don’t want to start boring your date. If this date goes well, there will be lots more opportunities to share your stories in the future. Don’t be scared of pauses and help mix up the conversation by asking your date questions. Listening is important, as it shows that you are interested in what she has to say.

Keep the conversation fun

Try to keep your conversation light-hearted. On your first date, you don’t want to get into an in-depth conversation about why you don’t enjoy your job, or other issues you’ve been having. Women want a guy who can make them laugh. Yes you do have to be serious sometimes, but in the early stages of dating, have some fun.

Avoid the ‘ex’ conversation

Talking about your ex is dangerous territory. It’s best to stay away from the conversation altogether. Your date will not be interested and it can make things feel awkward between you. If your date does bring up the subject, try to keep answers short (without appearing suspicious). Reassure her that your past is history and that you want to spend your time getting to know her instead.

Turn off your phone

There’s nothing more annoying than phones ringing whilst trying to spend quality time out with friends, and it’s just as irritating on a date. Don’t just put it on silent or vibrate, as you can still become distracted. Turn your phone off completely. If she knows that you’ve turned your phone off to focus entirely on the date, she’ll appreciate you’re taking the time to engage with her fully.

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